Daily Magic: April 7, 2017 {On Relationship Projecting}

With these retrogrades causing delays it’s a good time to slow down and meditate on patience. 

Image: Eliza Sidney
Image: Eliza Sidney

There’s also a lot of projecting going on in relationships. I’m a little shocked at just how far it goes.

Projecting our expectations onto others really screws with our ability to see reality.

“No matter what you say, or do – what is ultimately heard is the fear or insecurity of the listener. It becomes a one-sided conversation masking as a two-sided one.” Dr. Bairavee Balasubramaniam PhD

Dr. Bairavee goes on to explain that people who are most true to themselves get projected on the most. And people can only see you to the extent they allow themselves.

This might explain why I’ve been feeling starkly alone lately, even when I’m with loved ones. A global disconnection is occurring at this time as we fight for our individuality.

But we can genuinely love others while still promoting self-respect, no matter what reality looks like. Relationships can best be aligned by being your raw, honest self, but staying in your own lane. 

There’s no need to project our shadow onto others when we love our whole self, and we’re free to be that.

With love, Elizabeth aka Intuitive Fish

The cultivated witch rules her stars; the fool obeys them.


Tarot Card of the Day

7 of Swords Reversed

Watch for aimless chatting, slander, or tricks of abuse; don’t give more than you should

Today’s Numerology


Imagination, inspiration, creative self-expression, promoting other artists, joy

Sacred Day of the Week


A day for love, romance, beauty, affections, harmony and finding things and people you adore

Today’s Lunar Phase

Waxing Gibbous 86%

Developing, Cultivating, Fine-tuning, Manifesting Your New Moon Intention

Astrology: The Planets, intuitivefish.com

Today’s Planetary Aspects

Sun opposes Jupiter, Sun square Pluto, Mars trine Pluto, Venus square Saturn, Moon trine Mercury

Other Current Planetary Energies

Saturn trine Uranus: Innovative breakthroughs, and authentic changes especially for your career and social structures come easy now.

Saturn square Chiron: You’ll be pushed to grow up! through taking responsibility, practical self-care, staying objective, and releasing the past. Watch for self-punishing behavior.

Uranus Pluto Square: Breaking down behavior patterns and social structures with righteous anger marks this beautiful energy. But it can also create chaos and anxiety…. Let go of the old and the dead.

Jupiter square Pluto: Facing and overcoming your fears with deep insight is a little easier at this time. Just watch for cynicism, narcissism and dwelling on those fears.

Jupiter opposes Uranus: Watch for technology overwhelm or attention deficit disorder. But technology can foster healthy revolutions, as long as it’s in balance.

Jupiter in Libra: We’re evolving and growing this year primarily through relationships and social connections – believe it or not!

[Aries Sun, Leo Moon; Sun, Uranus, Pallas in Aries; Mercury, Mars, Ceres in Taurus; Chiron, Neptune in Pisces; Saturn retrograde until April 25, 2017, Mercury retrograde April 9, 2017 until May 3, 2017, Venus Retrograde until April 15, 2017, Mars in Taurus until April 21, 2017, Venus in Pisces until April 28, 2017, Ceres in Taurus until April 29, 2017, Lunar N North in Virgo until April 29, 207, Uranus Pluto square until May 2017, Mercury in Taurus until May 15, Venus in Aries until June 6, 2017, Jupiter Retrograde until June 9, 2017, Jupiter square Pluto until Aug 2017, Jupiter opposes Uranus until Oct 2017, Jupiter in Libra until Oct 10, 2017, Pallas Athene in Aries until Nov 15, 2017, Saturn square Chiron until end of 2017, Saturn trine Uranus until end of 2017, Juno in Capricorn until Dec 16, 2017, Saturn in Sagittarius until Dec 20, 2017, Chiron in Pisces until April 17, 2018, Uranus in Aries until May 15, 2018, Pluto in Capricorn until March 23, 2023, Neptune in Pisces until March 30, 2025]

Elizabeth, also known as Intuitive Fish, is a healthy vegan mama living in the Pacific Northwest. Her life mission involves researching the esoteric arts, guiding souls along their awakening path, and contributing to a world of humans doing what they love. She’s available for readings and counseling, and would love to be your friend on social media.